Navin

The Name of a friend in Mumbai, India which meas New Start or beginning....

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A MESSAGE TO YOU FROM MICHEAL AND THE BIRTH OF GlobalCnet

 

Hello World,

This note is from Michael Malette, Founder of Global Connection Network, home of GlobalCnet.

 

This project started while not only healing from cancer but was also in a bad taxi accident. 

I keep asking why...why! How much more can I endure, and what about my career and life?

Who will want a damaged Michael?  Will I ever walk again?  I will live the rest of my life in a nursing home.  It was a devastating experience.

Even with my career and training, it was a struggle to live in the NOW.  I could navigate myself, and with small miracles daily, there was positive progress.  Today still disabled, I live a blessed life.

If you remain in the NOW, positive results will always win over negative thoughts.

 

In this struggle, searching for solutions, other perspectives....other stories just like my own.  There were feelings of l enlightenment yet confusion with new enhanced feelings of gratitude that my life was spared.  This was to me, an essential life purpose.  Now realizing the power of the WWW, what started as a journal became the Global Connection Network.  I now enjoy over 1,346,000 visits to GlobalCnet.  I feel blessed and have a great sense of accomplishment.

 

It was my purpose to share my journey with you; I hope you share GlobalCnet with everyone.  There are a million answers from experts, human experience, and others in your situation—just type, explore, and be enriched with hope.

 

Today I had the pleasure of meet Navin.  I had difficulty with my desktop computer and Navin helped sort out the problem.  His name Navin litterly trannslates to New  Start.  I felt his services were exceptional, therefor I dedicate this web page on GlobalCnet to his knowledge, conversation and friendship.  I find myself greeting and having a conversation with almost everyone.  We all have stories and experiences to share, we all matter.

 

If you want to say hello, need help, or share your wellness, send me a web mail.

 

Blessings and dream high; we live in a beautiful World,

Michae l Malette

 

 

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                                             - Michael J. Malette, PhD

                                               Founder, Global Connection Networks, Inc.

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What is starting over?

 

Starting over in life typically refers to making a significant change in one's life, often by leaving behind old habits, routines, relationships, or career paths in order to pursue a new direction.

This can involve a variety of changes, such as moving to a new location, changing careers, ending or beginning relationships, or adopting new habits and mindsets.

It's a process of reinvention and often involves a period of reflection, learning, and growth.

Starting over can be both challenging and rewarding, offering the opportunity for personal growth and a fresh start.

 

When starting over in life, people can make a wide range of changes depending on their individual circumstances and goals.

 

Here are some examples:

Career change: Switching to a completely different profession or industry, pursuing a passion or interest, or starting a new business.

Relocation: Moving to a new city, state, or even country to seek new opportunities, a change of environment, or a fresh start.

Education: Going back to school or pursuing further education to gain new skills, knowledge, or qualifications for a different career path.

Relationship changes: Ending toxic or unfulfilling relationships, starting new relationships, or focusing on personal growth and self-discovery.

Lifestyle changes: Adopting healthier habits such as exercise, diet, and self-care, quitting harmful habits like smoking or excessive drinking, or embracing a minimalist lifestyle.

Financial changes: Restructuring finances, saving money, paying off debts, or making investments to improve financial stability and create a better future.

Personal development: Engaging in therapy, self-reflection, and personal growth activities to improve mental and emotional well-being and cultivate a more fulfilling life.

Social connections: Building new friendships and social networks, joining clubs or organizations, or exploring new communities to expand social connections and support systems.

 

These are just a few examples, and the changes people make when starting over will vary greatly depending on their individual circumstances, goals, and aspirations.

 

Starting over in life typically refers to making a significant change in one's life, often by leaving behind old habits, routines, relationships, or career paths in order to pursue a new direction.

This can involve a variety of changes, such as moving to a new location, changing careers, ending or beginning relationships, or adopting new habits and mindsets. It's a process of reinvention and often involves a period of reflection, learning, and growth.

Starting over can be both challenging and rewarding, offering the opportunity for personal growth and a fresh start.

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Starting over in life can bring several benefits:

 

Personal Growth: Starting over allows you to step out of your comfort zone and explore new possibilities. It gives you the opportunity to learn new skills, develop resilience, and discover hidden strengths and passions. This can lead to personal growth and a greater sense of self-awareness.

Reinvention: Starting over provides a chance to redefine yourself and your life. You can leave behind any negative patterns, habits, or relationships that may have been holding you back, and create a new identity aligned with your values and aspirations.

It allows you to rewrite your life story and shape it in a way that brings you fulfillment and happiness.

Fresh Perspective: Starting over can give you a fresh perspective on life. By breaking away from old routines and environments, you open yourself up to new experiences, cultures, and people.

This can broaden your horizons, challenge your beliefs, and foster a greater understanding of the world around you.

Increased Resilience: Overcoming challenges and starting over requires resilience and adaptability. By navigating through the uncertainties and obstacles that come with starting anew, you build resilience and develop the ability to bounce back from setbacks.

This resilience can serve you well in other areas of life as well.

Freedom and Flexibility: Starting over can provide a sense of freedom and flexibility.

It allows you to let go of any obligations or expectations that may have been weighing you down and create a life that aligns with your desires and dreams.

You have the opportunity to make choices that bring you joy and fulfillment without being bound by past decisions or commitments.

New Opportunities: Starting over opens the door to new opportunities that may not have been available to you before.

It can lead to new career prospects, relationships, friendships, and personal achievements. Embracing change and taking risks can lead to unexpected and exciting possibilities.

 

It's important to note that starting over is not without its challenges and uncertainties, and the benefits may vary depending on individual circumstances.

However, for many people, the opportunity for growth, reinvention, and a fresh start can be incredibly rewarding and transformative.

 

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Making a fresh start in life can be a transformative and empowering process. Here are some steps you can consider:

 

Reflect on your current situation: Take time to assess your life and identify what aspects you're dissatisfied with or want to change.

Reflect on your values, passions, and aspirations to gain clarity on what you want in your fresh start.

Set clear goals: Define specific and realistic goals that align with your desired fresh start.

Break them down into smaller, actionable steps to make them more achievable.

Create a plan: Develop a practical plan of action to reach your goals.

Outline the necessary steps, resources, and timeline to keep yourself organized and focused.

Let go of the past: Embrace the idea of starting anew by letting go of any emotional baggage, regrets, or negative patterns from the past.

Learn from your experiences, but don't let them hold you back.

Seek support: Reach out to friends, family, or mentors who can provide guidance, encouragement, and advice during your fresh start. Consider joining support groups or seeking professional help if needed.

Take care of yourself: Prioritize self-care and make sure to attend to your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

Practice healthy habits, such as exercise, proper nutrition, and sufficient rest, to maintain balance and resilience.

Embrace learning and growth: Be open to new experiences, perspectives, and opportunities for personal development.

Seek out learning opportunities, whether through formal education, workshops, or self-study, to expand your knowledge and skills.

Take action: Implement your plan and take consistent action towards your goals.

Be prepared for challenges and setbacks along the way, but persevere and stay committed to your fresh start.

Stay positive and resilient: Cultivate a positive mindset and resilience. Stay focused on your goals, celebrate your achievements, and learn from any setbacks.

Surround yourself with positivity and optimism to maintain motivation.

 

Remember, making a fresh start is a personal journey, and everyone's path will be unique.

Be patient with yourself, embrace the process, and celebrate the progress you make along the way.

 

 

 

6 Signs You’re ‘Down In the Dumps’— And Need to Reboot

Evidence You Might Be Depressed and Ways to Restart Your System So That You Can Start Feeling Better

 

 

 

There are a few telltale symptoms that signal we’re not feeling so great. For lack of a better term, I’m talking about depression — but not necessarily the full blown clinical kind — although some of these are indeed potential red flags for it.

 

 

 

Here are a few of the signs I’ve noticed in myself and others as well as some of the methods I’ve found effective at rebooting.

 

1. You’re not motivated to do anything except the bare minimum

 

 

Some days you might feel like you’re doing the least amount possible in order to just get by.

 

Perhaps you even think things like, “I just have to get through the day.”

 

Maybe dishes in the sink are piling up or you’ve stopped making your lunch for work and instead grab something outside instead.

 

Any excuse to not do additional activities, whether it be social or otherwise, are on the table.

 

Reboot: Tackle one task that feels insurmountable, but give it a time limit and set a timer for a reasonable amount of time, say 10 mins. Aim to finish the task in that time span and even if you don’t, you’ll at least have gotten part of it accomplished.

 

Second, push yourself to do things like meet with a friend you haven’t seen for a while.Remind yourself that you want to be available to them and I’m pretty sure you won’t regret it once you see them.

 

 

 

2. Personal hygiene has gone downhill in one way or another

 

 

 

As unpleasant as it might be, you’ve been showering less. To try to get away with it you use dry shampoo and baby wipes and plenty of deodorant, desperately hoping no one notices at work.Or perhaps instead you neglect to brush your teeth at night when you used to do so religiously.Basically, you’ve been slacking when it comes to taking care of yourself and you know it. 

 

 

Reboot: Try switching up your routine.Say for instance you’d normally shower in the morning, but that just hasn’t been working so instead take one in the evening, preferably immediately after getting home from work. It can also be helpful to work on one habit at a time, like brushing your teeth. Give yourself credit for your successes and get right back on the horse if you fail.

 

 

 

3. You dropped your workout routine or are drastically less active

 

 

Instead of going for a jog, you find yourself watching something on Netflix after work. In the morning, instead of doing yoga for 30 minutes, you watch the news, telling yourself it’s good to be informed.

 

Your previous routines have shifted from active to passive and you’ve found ways to rationalize it. 

 

Reboot: Find a time where you can dedicate at least 15 mins of your day to doing some sort of exercise — but make it fun! Consider it a prerequisite to listen to music while you run or make a pact with yourself that you earn some sort of reward once you’ve worked out at least 3 times per week. Your thought process has to change from exercise being a punishment or to it being something good for you.

 

 

4. Things you used to enjoy no longer spark your interest

 

 

 

Did you used to love to go to concerts or get a thrill out of dancing the night away at the local club? The thought of ‘going out’ now may seem overwhelming and something you avoid as much as possible. Perhaps you used to read in the evening, and even though you may still want to grab that romance novel, the motivation to actually read it is no longer present.

 

 

Reboot: Seek out a brand new book or a totally new hobby. Try it out. Experiment. It doesn’t mean you have to like it — but trying something novel can kickstart our imagination, creativity, and sometimes even reignite our passion for the things we used to enjoy.

 

 

 

5. Getting out of bed in the morning is difficult

 

 

The alarm goes off and you keep pressing snooze. Part of this may be the fact that you don’t particularly like your job, but if every morning feels like a struggle, it’s likely there is more to the story. Just trying to make coffee and a simple breakfast feels like an immense chore and you dread leaving home.

 

Reboot: First thing in the morning try Mel Robbins 5–4–3–2–1 technique to get yourself out of bed — picturing yourself as a rocketship blasting out of bed. Alternatively, pretend you’re a lion and give a great roar/yawn and stretch your arms wide as you stand up in all your glory!

 

 

6. Life seems lackluster and you can’t seem to shake that feeling

 

 

 

Instead of rose-tinted glasses, it seems as though someone tinged yours grey. Almost everything — and everyone — seems nondescript, blah, uninteresting. On an intellectual level you know you should be grateful and enthusiastic about what you have and life as you know it, but it isn’t coming naturally. Things feel forced and you may even feel like something is wrong with you.

 

 

Reboot: Check out some art, dance around to your favorite music, talk with a dear friend, or make an appointment with your counselor (if you have one). Otherwise, go for a walk in nature, spend time with your pets or borrow someone else’s, or create a gratitude list naming 10 things you’re thankful for right now, even stuff that seems insignificant. Remind yourself of your strengths and that this situation is just temporary. Depression is how you feel — it is not who you are and it does not define you.

 

 

 

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I’ve learned that a significant part of attraction is rooted in standing out from the crowd.

 

There’s something irresistible and even mysterious when we do things differently to most.

That doesn’t mean that everything we do that’s different will attract others.

Here are some examples of things most people avoid that are often highly attractive to others:

Don’t interrupt.

Such a simple thing. But it’s not easy to do.

Many don’t even realise it when they do it, but they interrupt, not to be intentionally rude, but often out of insecurity.

When we interrupt, we inadvertently signal our sense of inadequacy.

We want to be seen. So we undermine the attention others are getting to steal back some for ourselves.

This is low-status activity and will lose you respect.

Give people space. This is what leaders do.

They are in no rush and are totally happy for others to be in the limelight.

Become a master at something specific.

Developing a higher-than-average level of skill for something isn’t common.

It demonstrates perseverance and grit that many don’t have.

Whether it’s mastering juggling or reaching higher echelons of achievement as an artist, teacher, dancer, writer, or sailor, this all emphasises your stand-out quality.

Reaching higher skill levels is attractive to many in a similar way as reaching celebrity status can.

Exhibit an unexpected aspect of your appearance.

Subtlety wins here, especially in a world where everyone is tripping over themselves to stand out with an over-emphasis on appearance.

Wear something that interrupts the expectation others might have of someone like you.

You could wear typical clothes like most others but have a stand-out watch, bracelet, or unusual socks.

If it’s unexpected, it tends to stick in the memory.

Memorable things often elevate your perceived value, which is often attractive.

Nurture total non-resistance to criticism.

Most people are quick to take things personally.

Someone might criticise them, or they may take things the wrong way. They are visibly flustered or annoyed.

They may go quiet (as was often my style when I took things personally growing up).

This demonstration of insecurity based on a thought-created interpretation of events is a waste of energy, eats at you from the inside, is immature, and is ultimately unattractive.

Those who have developed an OKness with being criticised and gently smile when insulted aren’t pushovers.

They simply no longer see the connection between what others think and their own well-being.

They no longer seek validation, nor are they affected by insult.

This is deeply attractive.

Share something that takes courage to share.

People who garner tons of respect from sharing something vulnerable do so because it takes courage.

Why though?

It requires bravery to reveal things that make you look less than perfect or socially acceptable.

But it doesn’t stop here.

This is where some people get it mixed up. It’s not about sharing things in a vulnerable way for the sake of it.

If that worked, we’d all be harping on about the acne or our butts.

Being vulnerable is respected when it serves a positive purpose.

When I am willing to look ‘inferior’ to demonstrate a point that ultimately helps others, that’s strength.

For example, you can tell me that you still get anxious before interviews, but you tell me so that I feel encouraged.

You are showing me your humanity while lifting me.

That takes courage and pitches you as an example-setting leader, not a loser.

Be an occasional dick.

There’s a vast difference between being a relentless, consistent dick and being just a little bit of a dick some of the time.

Most people are doing everything they can to come across as nice and harmless and totally not offensive.

In their striving for niceness, they also often inadvertently drain all the soul from them, slipping into the background thanks to their vanilla exterior.

Being a little cocky and cheeky will set you apart.

You don’t always need to be nice to people if it’s done playfully.

This is refreshing to people.

Go against the grain, be a little naughty, and you will have people falling in love with you.

Be there.

The next time you watch people interact, note how present people are in the conversation.

A lot of the time, you will find people are anywhere but in the interaction. People are lost in their heads.

They’re either self-conscious and fidgety or somewhere else, thinking about whether they left the iron on at home or they’re thinking of something clever to say next.

They aren’t actually there.

Being there with someone, truly listening, and absorbing what they say will set you apart.

People will be amazed at how heard they feel, even if you barely talk.

People are well-attuned to sensing the presence in others.

Be still. Be there.

This will attract people to you, and often they won’t even know why.

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