ARE YOU SAD
You’re not meant to deal with sadness alone
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How to Deal With Sad Feelings
Here are 12 ways to undo, deflate, and reduce sadness to regain your life.
Posted November 10, 2020, | Reviewed by Ekua Hagan
What is sadness?
Sadness is defined as having grief, sorrow, or unhappiness.
Although we sometimes get caught up in our sad feelings, we don't have to.
Here are some ways to deal with sad feelings.
1. Beat rumination
Rumination is when you get stuck in your head, thinking about all the negative stuff that has gone wrong or could go wrong.
Rumination is a key feature of depression and contributes to unnecessary sad feelings.
That's why beating rumination is an important first step to overcoming sadness.
To stop the rumination, try engaging your body in some activity that is intense enough that you can't think for a few minutes.
For example, you could do sprints or take an ice-cold shower. This shock can stop your brain from cycling and force it to focus on the present moment.
2. Imagine a bright future, not a gloomy future
If something has happened to us to make us sad, we might become sadness-prone—only thinking about the worst things that could happen.
It's common because if we think through these bad outcomes, we can better prepare.
But it just makes us feel worse in the long run.
Our sadness can snowball into feeling all sorts of other negative emotions.
So try to imagine a brighter future, even if only in an exercise to help your brain breakthrough sad feelings.
Here's an activity to imagine future happiness.
3. Cultivate mindfulness skills
To practice this skill, pause, pay attention to your negative emotions and attempt to approach them with curiosity instead of judgment.
4. Try cognitive reappraisal
Reappraisal is hard for many of us, and if we have a hard time seeing the silver linings, this can contribute to higher levels of sadness and depression.
Luckily, we can get better at reappraisal.
We have to practice thinking about what’s good in the situation.
What are you grateful for, how could it have gone worse, or what small things are good?
By using reappraisal, you can stop sad feelings.
5. Read some books on overcoming sadness
There are so many science-based strategies you can use to undo sadness.
By reading self-help books, you can begin to learn and implement these strategies into your life.
6. Boost your serotonin
Low serotonin is linked to depression.
So how might you increase serotonin?
One quick way is to eat carbohydrates.
Yeah, it turns out that the warm fuzzy feeling we get when we eat carbs is in part due to the serotonin boost we get from them.
Another way to boost serotonin is to (carefully) take 5-HTP supplements, which help increase serotonin in the body.
And aerobic exercise, in particular, may contribute to higher serotonin levels.
7. Eat less sugar
I was surprised to discover greater sugar intake is linked to higher levels of depression.
We already know sugar is bad for our physical health, but it is also bad for our mental health.
So try not to consume so much sugar if you're sad.
8. Don't obsess about your sad feelings
Feeling sad sucks.
But we can't allow ourselves to obsess about it.
We make things worse if we focus too much on our lack of happiness and worry about being stuck in sadness.
So try to focus on actions and things you can do to feel better rather than focusing specifically on your sad feelings.
9. Get a positive emotional boost
Positive emotions broaden our thought processes and build on themselves, creating a lifeline for us when we're sad
That’s why doing things to create more positive emotions is so important for reducing our sadness.
There are so many ways to create positive emotions.
In many ways, this may be easier than directly decreasing negative emotions.
You can also do things you enjoy, like spending time with friends, going outside, or reading. Whatever makes you happy, do these things.
10. Outsmart your smartphone
We’re on our phones 24-7.
But spending too much time on our phones or the internet is associated with higher levels of depression and loneliness.
So it would help if you learned how to "outsmart your smartphone" and use your phones in ways that increase happiness instead of sadness.
11. Be kind to yourself
Challenging self-critical thoughts and being self-compassionate can help reduce negative emotions like sadness.
So if you’re being hard on yourself, try thinking about your good qualities and strengths.
12. Make a plan
There are many actions you can take to beat sadness.
Making a "happiness plan" can be helpful.
For example, you could do one new sadness-busting strategy each day. Whatever works for you to ensure you'll do the things that make you feel better is what matters most.